Well, IIRC, you are an asian female who plays at the commie... So you either look like this
or like this
Enquiring minds are eagerly awaiting to know which...Its like, we just wanna know whether to have ourselves a good wank, or a good cry***....yaknow???
***(edit) Note that there are many of us here at BTP that tend to perform these two activities either simultaneously, or one right after the other. However, the answer to my question could still be relevant to the ratio of wanking to crying for some people, and which of the two activities comes first in time, for others.
Thx for your help, consideration and understanding!