There's this quote from Con Air that I modified for my own purposes.
"Cyrus, this is your barbecue, man, and it tastes good. But I was just sayin' to Mr Dog over here, that if it was my barbecue I'd wait for that old jumbo jet in the sky before I start killin' our only leverage."
So when something bad happens and its not my fault or my problem, when I'm around my friends "its not my barbecue".