Do you have some sort of rule, guideline that you follow as when to C/F when you have been the 3bettor PF? Obviously having bad image would be one when you know you will get played back light and have little credit. What flops do you check behind if you have position?

I kinda feel sick donating money to others like this

$3/$6 No Limit Holdem
4 players
Converted at

Stacks:
CO ($600.00)
BTN ($888.40)
Hero ($615.00)
BB ($650.00)

Pre-flop: ($9, 4 players) Hero is SB [Ad]
1 fold, BTN raises to $24, Hero raises to $75, 1 fold, BTN calls $51

Flop: [2d][9h] ($156, 2 players)
Hero bets $110, BTN raises to $220, Hero folds

Hand2:
Similar situation, blind is a nitty player but he has been playing way too much at my steals. Do we 4 bet here or donate money for most part as usual? I estimate that by calling here, I will maybe win 20% of pots unless i spike a set, str8 or something.

$3/$6 No Limit Holdem
5 players
Converted at

Stacks:
UTG ($746.45)
CO ($987.20)
Hero ($591.00)
SB ($596.85)
BB ($645.00)

Pre-flop: ($9, 5 players) Hero is BTN [Tc]
2 folds, Hero raises to $21, 1 fold, BB raises to $72, Hero calls $51

Flop: [4h][2h] ($147, 2 players)
BB bets $102, Hero calls $102

Turn: ($351, 2 players)
BB bets $471, Hero folds